In Indian it means it’s boring, but it’s clean

I’m off to Toronto next week. I am a bit sad to be away from the boys for four days, but hopefully I will get a lot of work done to make it worth it.

I’ve been scoping out the public transit and I must admit that I miss living in a big city. My hotel and factory are in the middle of nowhere and there is a bus between them every 3 minutes. Drool. That never happens in Ottawa. On the minus side I don’t think I will get to visit too much while I’m there. I’ll try and work like crazy so I won’t have to go back too often during the next couple of months. Wish me luck.

To make everything more fun, I am currently reading “Brown Girl in the Ring” as a part of the Canada Reads program. It is a futuristic novel in which downtown Toronto core becomes so destitute and violent the rest of Canada builds walls around it and leaves it to be run by a mob boss from the top of the CN tower.

Film – Persepolis

I had a pretty bad cold today so I stayed home. I was just about to get Trev dressed for daycare when I realised that he has a bit of a cough too so I decided to keep him with me. I didn’t get the rest I was hoping for, or the time to tidy up a bit, but we did build a fort.

fort

Daycare rant

Childcare is nominally provincial responsibility so some provinces are better off than others. Quebec, for example, offers $7/day daycare and people there are mightily pleased with it. Ontario, where I am, theoretically funds some daycares, but it seems to me to be on a case by case basis. In Ottawa, home care will set you back $34 a day and daycare center $62. This effectively means that only mid to high income families can afford centers. Only 12% of preschoolers in Ottawa are in some sort of registered accommodations and this includes home cares that are supervised by agencies. Since just slightly above 50% of Canadian children are cared for by someone other than their parents, I assume that most kids are in some sort of private home care arraignments.

There are articles in the papers all the time about ridiculous waiting lists, but my experience is that it is not so bad. Everyone I know who was looking for daycare found some. Sometimes you have to call centers directly and visit a few times to magically appear on the top of the list. I suspect that lists are inflated – Trevor is currently in home daycare but I have no intention of removing him from the waiting list until he is of school age. In fact, we had our names on the list for about four years now even though he is only 11 months and a bit.

I’ve signed Trev up for the Montessori center, but they only take babies at 18 months (though they said they will take him at 16). This is a pain in the neck since I had to find home daycare for him for the 4 months difference. Finding a good daycare is another problem all together. I found that there are a lot of people offering to take kids, but they are women staying at home with their own children with very little or no interest in other kids except for the fact that they’re getting money for something they would be doing anyway. I’ve actually had daycare set up with someone in my neighborhood through an agency. We were supposed to drop Trev off yesterday morning and just as we were getting into the car, she called to tell me that she won’t take him. I feel like a total idiot for choosing to go with her despite my husband preferring someone else. Fortunately, my husband’s choice provider was able to fit Trev in and we took him there today and he had a great time. This private home daycare provider has 12 years experience and has been very warmly recommended. My problem with her is that she is far away (about 15 minutes in one direction) and that the kids play in an half unfinished basement.

I find it too bad that there is no incentive for daycare providers to go with agencies. I wish there was more competition. This way it is really a matter of luck to have someone to recommend a good provider.

The federal government had implemented a 5 billion dollar daycare program, but the party in power lost the election and the new government canceled it before it got started and replaced it with some ridiculous scheme where as they send every single family in the country $100 a month per child. This is not enough money to make a difference to a family that can’t afford food or snowsuits and it is an utter waste it give it to someone like me, even though I will end up giving half of it back in taxes. One of the opposition members was criticised for calling this hand out “beer and popcorn” money, but frankly, $50 pretty much only covers my monthly wine and cheese bill.

Film – Sweeny Todd

Christmas loot was good this year. I asked for and got cell phone, web camera and “North and South” DVD. The first two were really for my family more than me. Chris has been bugging me to get a cell phone from before I got pregnant. My dad has been particularly vocal in encouraging me to get one because he loves texting, so I got the only plan available that will let me text Eastern Europe. Ironically enough, T-Mobile should be able to receive my messages but my dad didn’t get a single one though I can get his messages without a problem. I can text my sister who is on another network and then she tells dad I’ve replied. We’re going to look into this, hopefully it is just a matter of settings. The web camera I got so my parents can see their grandchild as he grows. “North and South” is all for me.

I also got Elizabeth Hay’s “Late Nights on Air” which is the talk of the town right now due to some award and “Icefields” by Thomas Wharton which is one of the Canada Reads books. So far, the queues at the library for the Canada Reads books are enormous so it looks like this will be the only one I might get a chance to read before the program starts in February.

I also got ski tickets which we used a few days ago. Snowboarding was great even though I am a crummy snowboarder and it took me three runs to get back into it. By fifth run I was falling over tired. Overall I had fun and I hope to get out more this year.